The company you keep

I have been hearing a lot about guilt by association lately. People are saying it's unfair to judge someone just because he spends time with people that have questionable or bad reputations. I cannot agree with this assumption.



I remember when I was a boy, I had to introduce all of my friends to my mother. She would ask them about everything from their parents to schoolwork. She wanted to know everything she could about them. Then she would ask her friends if they knew anything my friends. If she came across anything that was debatable, I was no longer allowed to play with them. End of story.



This was especially true when I was in high school. I hung out with guys that smoked marijuana and drank. She asked me if I was getting high or drinking. I told her that I wasn't (which was true). She said that if I kept hanging around with them, I would get the same reputation, deserved or not. And she was right. People I respected started to treat me differently. Of course being a teenager, I didn't care, they were my friends. When I stopped hanging out with them, people started treating me as they did before. What a change.



Let's look at another situation. Would you stand by and watch your child marry someone who won't work, takes drugs, or sleeps around on them? Would you listen to your child say,"I love them and they'll change when we get married" and do nothing? I didn't think so. Why would you be so worried? Could it be because of the reputation your child will get? How about the reputation you may get...



As the old saying goes, "If you sleep with dogs, you'll wake up with fleas." I think nowadays it should be, "If you hang out with trash, you'll walk away with the stink."

Iraq losses are main story

I heard on the news today that there was another homocide bombing in Iraq. I was waiting for a body count of soldiers killed in Iraq since the beginning of the war. I absolutely hate hearing a body count. Having a nephew and someone I coached in baseball fighting over there, I don't want to hear someone keeping score.

I remember as a young boy watching the body counts in the Vietnam War on the CBS Evening News. This isn't a game. These are the finest young men and women doing their jobs as they have been taught to do. They deserve that respect.

As of 3/10/08, according to the website globalsecurity.org, since 2/03 there have been 3,967 deaths in Iraq. Compare that to these other statistics:

According to the New York Times there were 2,752 murders in NYC from 2003 through 2007. According to the Philadelphia Police Department there were 1,853 murders from 2003 through 2007. This is a total of 4,605 murders in two US cities. Do we keep a running total of this?

According to MADD.com, 1,700 students die each year from alcohol related unintentional injuries, including motor crashes. Over a five year period, that would be 8,500 alcohol related deaths. That is twice as many deaths as has happened in Iraq. Is this updated nightly on the national news broadcasts?

I can come up with other statistics that show the loss of life in Iraq is less than many other ways of dying.

While I was a child, a phrase commonly heard was "America, Love it or leave it." I think now it should be "If you don't have anything good to say, don't say anything at all."

Angry White Man

I heard this article being discussed by Rush Limbaugh last week. I just received this in an email today. Here is the link:

http://www.aspentimes.com/article/2008198091324

After reading the article, I guess that describes me, except for the angry part. I am not really angry. I am just not very tolerant of whiners. I don't want to hear "What about me?" "It's not fair."

I am not a metrosexual (just ask my wife). I have coached my son's baseball and soccer teams. I love playing poker and golf. I go to work every day to make sure my family is taken care of. I just live by the Golden Rule, I try to treat people the way I want to be treated.

Don't tell me you deserve special rights because you're gay. I'm not concerned what you do behind closed doors. Don't tell me you deserve special rights because you're not a white male. No matter who you are, if you get your education and work hard, good things will happen to you. If you don't like someone telling you what to do, be your own boss. The only thing holding you back is you.

You can learn something from everyone you meet. I learn things from my 8 year old daughter and the custodial lady at work. I'm not advocating being naive, I just think life would be better if we just weren't so distrustful.

Indiana's Illegal Immigration Problem

Here in Indiana, the House of Representatives are dealing with a bill that would punish companies that KNOWINGLY hire illegal immigrants. The bill requires employees use a federal system to verify citizenship. If the company violates the law three times in a 10 year period, the state would revoke the business' license.

As usual, the illegal immigrant enablers have come out and called the sponsors of the bill anti-immigrant and racists. The problem I have with this is that the verification would be used for EVERY potential employee. Bob Smith could be illegally here from Toronto. Jose Espinosa could have been born in Seattle, Washington. If you are able to produce the documents needed, you have no problem. If you can't, well...

I had to show my information to my employer when I filled out the I-4 form. I don't think it's too much to ask everybody else do the same.

First time blogger

Greetings to everyone who has stopped by to take a look. I'll tell you a little bit about myself. I am a 45 year old guy who is tired of not having someplace to respond to all of the cultural/political stuff going on today. I will try to update this as often as I can. I am looking forward to letting everyone know how I feel and hearing your responses.